Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts

Sunday, October 4, 2015

Orphans of the Secret War

 

Orphans of the Secret War SM

Orphans of the Secret War

Loved it! ~ Review by Karen Bennett

Orphans of the Secret War is a terrific story based on the author’s real life experiences, but written as a fictional book. Told from his point of view, he captures the hell he went through from growing up as a half-breed in a poor village in Thailand where the majority of the people didn’t embrace him because he was different. It’s written in such a way as to capture all the important moments of his life … whether it was sad, hopeful, or horrific. As a child of an American pilot named “Charlie” he was forced into adoption by his mother to give him what she thought would be a better life. Nearly two decades later he was able to locate his mother, but he never did find his father, so that part of his heritage is still missing. It may have taken some time, but in the end he was grateful.

Book Blurb:

To beat the traffic, rise above it, else you need a miracle…

Orphans of the Secret War is a witty, sad, entertaining book narrated by a young “loog-kruenk” boy. An Asian-American child born to a Thai mother and an absent American father. He writes about his growing-up years in a small Thai village during the Secret War that was waged in Laos by the US against the North Vietnamese. In scope and content, the novel is reminiscent of Tom Brown’s School Days and Huckleberry Finn, but with a broader world view of events. This is NOT a children’s book, however…

As an adjunct to the primary war the US engaged in a little publicized, tactical war against the North Vietnamese in Laos.  To help in this effort, Thailand allowed the US to station troops in a number of cities across Thailand, including Udon Thani, in the North. Like a good omen—the rich foreign soldiers came, bringing new economic opportunities to this deprived, neglected region of rural Isaan.

The author presents, in a simple and entertaining style, his recollections of the life and times of his family during the occupation of Tahaan Falaangs in Udon.  More broadly, Bruce portrays the effect of this American military base on the life of impoverished rice farmers in Northeast Thailand. He helps you understand how the presence of the base and the soldiers changed the culture and values of the entire region.  Most importantly, Bruce provides the reader with a visceral, empathetic portrait of what happened to the Isaan people once the air base closed and the soldiers returned home.  These post-conflict effects are seldom publicized, but they are very real and much longer lasting than the war itself.

Excerpt of “About Orphans of the Secret War”:

One nation’s lust gave rise to the “shadow economy” as it temporarily pacified another nation’s greed. To supply the popular demand, entertainment venues opened and were thronged with lonely Tahaan Falaang , and “bar-girls” willingly came in waves to provide their services.

Is it that people who are willing to sell their bodies have no dignity, no limits? Or is it the other way around–that the person willing to buy someone’s body–has no dignity, and no limits?

Before you come to any conclusions, allow me to tell you a short story…

I am a result of the Vietnam War, actually—the “Secret War” in Laos–a bastard son of an American soldier stationed in Udon Thani during the decades-long Indochina conflict…

My mother, a young woman at the time, embraced this chance to make money, and even dreamed of being married off to a rich Tahaan Falaang who would take her away from the misery of subsistence living—a poor rural Isaan woman’s fantasy that evaporated the moment the Americans packed up and went home.

Upon returning home, pregnant and abandoned, my mother hid her secret as long as she could, only to have it revealed through the noticeably different looking son born to her. He would never be confused with a typical  Isaan farmer. Undereducated Isaan villagers did everything possible to lift my mother onto the stage of disgrace. With mounting pressure to survive in these rural lands, my mother did what many women in the same situation did—dropped me off at an orphanage where I witnessed the darker side of “Thai-ness”—and where I quickly learned how to conform to the system.

It was a journey that shredded my spirit and buried me deep in despair. I had no choice but to reach out into the unknown, begging a comet to save me and praying to any invisible powers willing to listen to an orphan’s plea.

Fate took me there. But a miracle brought me out…

Visit secretorphan.net or Amazon.com to read more.

Orphans of the Secret War

Saturday, September 5, 2015

Becoming Jen


Becoming Jen SM

Becoming Jen: My Journey to Mommyhood and Beyond

Even if you are not a mom you need to read this book! Becoming Jen had me laughing one moment and wanting to run to my kitchen the next so that I could make the amazing recipes that she includes. This is a book I highly recommend to all my mommy friends as it is a real mom's humorous perspective on love, marriage and motherhood. ~ Review by Nicole M Contreras
Book Description:

Becoming Jen is a hilariously truthful tale of one woman’s journey from being newlywed to newly mommy.  Using delicious recipes and awe-inspiring stories, she takes you on a journey through glorious Saturdays lounging in bed, to being woken up in the middle of the night by tiny ninjas.

Whether you're about to become a parent, or you just want to laugh and discover some scrumptious recipes, this book will have you snorting water from your nose and wondering what story she’ll tell next.

Excerpt:

Say “bye-bye” to randomness and everything that comes with it.

Knock, knock! Who’s there? Randomness! Ha-ha, no you’re not. You don’t exist anymore. The closest thing we had to randomness was “randomly” grabbing extra clothes without making sure they matched before taking off to the store. Which is a big deal; especially since I made sure that my girl matched in every way. Her outfit totally matched, her bib matched that outfit and her extra bib matched, because we all knew she was going to spit-up at least once. I did randomly hide pieces of candy in the diaper bag though. However, there was no randomness with me eating said pieces of candy; I ate those bad boys whenever I needed to grab something out of the bag, or when I had to put something back into the bag; sometimes when something fell from the bag. Ok, basically I ate candy constantly. Because I love candy; mostly sour candy and chocolate. And if I’m feeling really fancy, chocolate covered sour anything. And now I’m hungry. Anyone have any spare candy?

Becoming Jen: My Journey to Mommyhood and Beyond

Friday, March 13, 2015

Lessons starting in Kindergarten...



FREE KINDLE DOWNLOAD - March 13th to 17th


Fifo Tales-Fifo and the Mocking Teo is an adorable tale with a good lesson for children. Fifo must move to a new town where he starts kindergarten. There is one hedgehog in class that is not very friendly with him. His mom explains that kind words will get you kind actions. Fifo follows her advice and eventually all the animal play together nicely,
I read this with my five year old son who also enjoyed it. Cute characters and great illustrations make it a fun book for children. There is also a free download for a coloring book. I look forward to more Fifo Tales. ~ Review by Dyana Jo

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Still Holding Hands

Still Holding Hands

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Book Blurb:

Want to know the secrets to long term happy relationships? Pick a letter. Any letter. Take a spin through the alphabet to find out how to keep romance and fun in your lives. STILL HOLDING HANDS reveals how it is possible to continue to like, enjoy and take care of each others needs. It is an entertaining read, helpful without being preachy. This gift guide offers advice and smiles from over 50 years experience of companionship, marriage and love.

Excerpt:

SSMILE• Smile, it does not hurt at all. This is something you can pass on to an upset
partner. It is very difficult to have an argument when the other person is smiling.
It may cause wrinkles, but you will age happily.


Fran and Ed have set out to enlighten readers with their wonderful, quirky and funny view of how they managed their successful 50 year marriage. Their approach is deeply personal and honest, always showing insight into how to lovingly blend two different personalities. Though a quick read, the ABCs of relationship advice will impress each reader with wit, practicality and sensibility. A must read for newly-weds as well as those married forever! ~ Review by Claire H

Fran & Ed

About the Authors

Fran and Ed Cohen have been married for 50 years. Within that time, Dr. Ed
has played as a dentist, sales rep and wicked cool sax man. Fran plays at
facilitating book groups and lecturing in-between yoga classes. Both still play
with each other as well.


Still Holding Hands: A Whimsical Guide Through the ABC's of a Long Term Relationship is available on Amazon!

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Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Little Shytes…Confessions of a Toddler

Little Shytes

Little Shytes…Confessions of a Toddler

is available on the littleshytes website.

Little Shytes - Confessions of a toddler, is the first book in series of five books depicting the life and experiences of Benjamin and Abiagael. This is a true story about these toddlers and the trouble that get into. It also has their mum's version of events as well. Very entertaining. – Anonymous

Note: Little Shytes will be donating 10% of every sale of the Ebook to the charity The Kids Cancer Project.

Guest article by Lisa Morfitt

This book is about my gorgeous almost-three-year-old son, Benjamin. When I first met Matt, Benjamin’s dad, we knew immediately we wanted children. We would often talk about what our children would be like and what they would say and do. We spent hours imagining funny scenarios and laughing about them. We were also sure of the kind of parents we would be and confident our children would fit in with us—not us with them.

This book is my way of sharing some of the funny sides of a phase most parents have to endure, often with gritted teeth, sometimes by taking deep breaths or having a ten-second time-out in the privacy of their bedroom. For those parents who pray for the end of the day and for the night to fall so they can complete some chores uninterrupted or have a little peace and quiet, I am here to tell you this is just a phase, a fascinating phase when our baby is growing up and sending us insane along the way!

If I viewed the world through the eyes of my son’s – Parenting would have been a whole lot easier” good read ~Judy Giacci – Director MGM GIACCI PTY LTD

Everyone has advice to share, and everyone is an “expert”, but all parents face their own unique parenting challenges. I received advice about every parenting book on the market, and, yes, they gave some helpful suggestions and tips on how to tackle various issues. Some of the advice I put to use with Benjamin. Some worked, but most didn’t. At times, I wondered whether the problem was with my son or with the advice. I became even more frustrated because all I wanted was a solution. But a solution to what?

Surely, my son wasn’t a problem that needed to be solved. Sometimes, when the days seemed long and difficult because of Benjamin’s tantrums, his refusal to eat or his insistence on running away or making a mess, I would think to myself that if this were an adult behaving in this way, I would not tolerate it, but this is my son and I must, and so I do.

Sometimes, I felt frustrated with myself, thinking that parenting should come easy, so why didn’t it? I compared my parenting skills with those of other parents. I began to have doubts about myself as a good mother; I believed I couldn’t communicate with my son as effectively as other parents did with their children. I began to lose sight of what mattered most—my son growing up right before me.

Eventually, I realised I didn’t need to understand other parents’ ways of doing things. The problem was I didn’t understand Benjamin, and he sensed this and became frustrated. I realised I had to get to know Benjamin as an individual. I decided the best way to achieve this was to put myself in his shoes—to see things from his point of view—and put it down on paper.

WOW! WOW! WOW! I've just finished it.. I knew it would be SO GOOD after reading the foreword... It's funny, witty, honest and very clever. It makes you think more about what your child is thinking!! Benjamin you little minx, you are funny, cheeky but oh so loveable. Well done Lisa... Extremely proud xxx ~ Sandra Bennett Managing Director "BOOGIE ROOS"

Little Shytes…Confessions of a Toddler

is available on the littleshytes website.

The Healthy Lifestyle Book

The Healthy Lifestyle Book

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A very interesting book, sharing very useful methods of cleaning and organizing your home. A very easy to read and follow tips are shared in it. Recommended for anyone, even if you already consider yourself well organized, you'll still find some interesting new ideas. ~ Review by Yukie Davidson

Description:

Our world is so enamored of busyness, our culture places such a high value on multitasking that nobody is ever going to tell you to put silence and stillness on your “to do” list for the day. If we listen to the world and its agenda for us to work, hurry and succeed, we will find ourselves empty, unsatisfied and disconnected from our very own selves. When you want to change your life, you have to think care, love, health and strength among others. This precious thought is lost when you don’t have time or you don’t make time to uplift your habits. As you read this book, ask yourself, “what habit do I need to add to my “to do” list concerning my lifestyle?”

Every healthy routine we adapt yields its tribute of delight. Every change we make corresponds to and authorizes new state of mind, from breathless hopelessness to grimmest sunshine in the midday. It is therefore necessary to uplift our lifestyle. Our daily habits don’t have to be a long hard cognitive process. Even on a minor scale, personal goals are not hard to accomplish with the right information and support. We just have to be vigilant in undertaking the proper habits that would ensure good health.

This book will discuss some of the ways we can practice a lifestyle that attempts to make our relationships with others healthier, a lifestyle that involves caring for others/our loved ones, and maintaining proper hygiene and healthy choices! It recommends habits such as using natural alternative treatments like herbs to boost immunity, spending time with family or spouse to bring relaxation and relieve from routine tension, commitment and faithfulness, strengthening your health by appropriately following health choices like flossing teeth, washing hands and more!

Excerpt – Time with our loved ones

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I’ll start with these two quotes:-

  • If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance. George Bernard Shaw
  • Love your family. Spend time, be kind & serve one another. Make no room for regrets. Tomorrow is not promised & today is short.

If we have the heart to see and cherish it, our families would become our great source of peace and blessing in our daily lives. I feel encouraged by my family’s company as I hold within me poignant moments in my own life, vivid times of joy and fear with my family, moments of ups and downs yet holding on to love, moments of despair strengthened only by knowing that I am never alone, moments that are backlit by mystery, but I am heartened by the great care that rises out of them.

We seem to live in a world of “never enough.” That is certainly what television, movies and advertising tell us. No matter how much we have, a little “or a lot” more would be better. We are told over and over whether we think we’re listening or not, “You will never be truly fulfilled and happy until you get that one job, that one car, that one house. Then you’ll be happy and have all you need.” But when will that be?

The Healthy Lifestyle Book

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Monday, December 16, 2013

Nurses' Romance: Laurie & Andrew

Nurses' Romance
Available on Amazon

Tough topics addressed in this short novel. The first chapter is named "Tough Decisions" so that is a clue. This review tells what the story is about!

Review by  Heather - Great start to the series
"This is a great start to a unique story. The e-book is a little on the shorter side, but it is an introduction and ends at a good point so you want to know more, but you’re at a good spot to pause and wait for more. It moves quickly and the characters are easy to relate to, so it’s a great read if you aren't looking for an epic adventure to hold your attention for days. And it looks like there are future books to grow the plot.

One thing I love about this book is that the main character has had an exceptionally rough life. She is struggling to raise twins born following abuse by her uncle. She kept the children and lived with her parents who were very supportive. But after a failed relationship—the first time she opened herself to love—she decides to escape her hometown and strike out entirely on her own. It’s after taking this giant leap that she meets Andrew. It doesn't get much harder for the leading lady than that in the romance genre. I really appreciated that a book has such a strong character with such a difficult past."

Excerpt:
Twenty-five-year-old Laurie meadows brushed her long, auburn hair back impatiently from her heart-shaped face. She was running late for her job as a charge nurse in the men’s rehab unit at Wellesley rehabilitation center.

Her twins, Billy and Brenda, had given her some hard time again today when she dropped them off at the sitter’s house on her way to work. She’d lost fifteen minutes trying to reason with them. The sitter assured her that her kids would be off happily playing with the other kids by the time she pulled into Wellesley’s parking lot ten minutes away. She urged her to drop off her kids, kiss them good-bye, and go.

But, Laurie couldn't do that. It had been only eight weeks since they’d left their grandparents’ home and moved to San Diego. Unaccustomed to her twelve-hour shifts and to being left with a sitter, her eleven-year-olds were not adapting well to the absence of their grandparents or their mother’s twelve-hour shifts at Wellesley. She just couldn't drop them off and turn her back on them.

Jane John-Nwankwo

With more than 10 years as a professional speaker, Jane John-Nwankwo can hold any audience sitting straight on their chairs for one whole hour! She is a published author of more than 20 books including the best selling "How to make a million in nursing: The first Five Steps" and The "Nurses' Romance Series". (see continued biography on Jane John-Nwankwo's website)

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